I Told My Wife To Divorce Me If I Ever Lay My Hands On Her

Lindokuhle Sibanyoni, a South African pastor has revealed that he once told his wife never to involve her family, bishop, or the church if he ever became violent towards her. Instead, he advised her to file a police report and proceed with a divorce.

Sibanyoni, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Wednesday, May 28, said he doesn’t tolerate pastors and men who abuse their wives only to mount the pulpit and speak in tongues. 

“While I Was Courting My Wife And After We Got Married, I Told Her That If I Ever Lay My Hand On Her, She Should Not Call Or Run To My Family, My Bishop, Her Family, The Church Board Or Anywhere Else, But To The Police Station! Yes, I Told Her To Open A Case And Divorce Me. I Told Her That Because I’m A Disciple Of Jesus Christ And A Man Of Character. I Told Her That Because That’s What I’d Want My Daughters And Sisters To Do. I’m No Exception! I’m Not Supposed To Be Found Abusing My Wife. It’s Worse If I’m A Pastor. On The Contrary, The Church Is Very Loud On Abuse, Or Rather Could Be Louder,” he wrote.

     

“To This Day I Still Don’t Tolerate Pastors And Men Who Abuse Their Wives And Then Mount Up The Pulpit And Pray In Tongues. God Entrusted Me To Lead And Protect Not Only My Wife, But Every Women, Which Means If I Won’t Abuse My Wife, Then I Must Not Abuse ANY OTHER WOMAN. I’m Not Special, It’s A NORMAL Thing To Do!!! WE PROTECT WOMEN BY NOT CAUSING HARM ON THEM.

     

“I Shared From A Christian Perspective Because I Can’t Detach Myself From Who I Am In Christ. Men Were Entrusted By God To Love, Lead And Protect Women(By Not Causing Them Harm Because He Knew They(Men) Have The Advantage.